Tuesday, July 19, 2011

CHILDREN ARE GIFTS FROM GOD

Every child is a gift from God’

 Psalm 127:3  describes every child as a gift or heritage from God.  “Every child a gift from God - 1273 is just like a code gotten from the Bible. We discovered that quite a number of people are not aware of how to handle children and those that know need to be intimate with the fact that everyday working with children is getting more dynamics,  new trends, new events are happening and new ways of working with children are developing and we as caretakers, guardian or parents should be prepared to follow these trend in order to adequately measure up to standard. 
Furthermore, Every child whether albino, black or white, able bodied or physically challenged, well fed or starved, schooling or working, no matter the religion, no matter the mother, in a peaceful environment or war torn area, in the slum, village or city, sick or healthy, homely or homeless, privileged or not, anywhere, anytime, anyhow,, they are all gifts from God.
I urge all parents to take action by protecting, educating, feeding, preventing abuse and praying for the children as doing this will reduce the negative statistics on every child. “Saving these children means service to God and humanity.
 there is urgent need to mobilize community and other concerns on the need to respond to the crisis facing the Orphans and Vulnerable children . We all should make efforts to improve the quality of services provided for the well being, protection, and development of children all over the world and Nigeria in particular'
Our government pays little or no attention to the plight of children, most especially, the orphans and the disabled. If a country must survive, then every citizen no matter the size, colour, ethnic background or social status, should be actively catered and cared for.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

THE PRODUCTIVE SPOUSE

Forget love! I am completely serious.

Take a look at your partner. What got you to them? What were you looking for? I looked for happiness. What did it get me?

There is this longstanding myth that love can conquer all. It is completely and totally not true when it comes to marriage. Marriage is a job. There is no other way to describe it. Face it, folks, you could fall in love with lots of people who fit the right criteria. Enough time around them and you will become enamored. Enough kissing, enough flirting, enough conversation....and the sale is made. But what gets things farther than that?

Let’s arrange a situation. You are ten years into marriage. For the last two years neither of you has had a job. You have the standard two or three kids. Mortgage, car notes. Every single day is stressful. You know what gets you through? Production.

My husband has an enormous work ethic. His work is actually much more powerful than mine. He can get lots of things done in a small amount of time, and usually he sometimes does not enjoy himself in the process. I on the other hand, just sits with the computer Monday through Friday trying to make ends meet. Why did I marry him?

He had a listening ears even before we started dating, he can go any length to see others happy, he can not stand the fact that others are hungry, it gets to him to see a man lazy. but above all this advantages, he has his own vices too. He complains a lot. You must have strained yourself out before you can satisfy him.
What really got us together is that we both realized that neither one of us would give up on OURSELVES. Not each other. Neither one of us would make a bad choice about OUR OWN SITUATIONS. That is key. If your partner does not take the right steps to upkeep their life....folks.....you are not going to be happy soon.

Guys...we just want to enjoy life. Being close to Jesus and fellowship and worship and blessings and family is great! But if you want to figure out the key to a great relationship, find someone who wants to work hard and succeed, regardless of whether or not they are with you.

Without self-respect, no relationship can truly flourish. Ask Jesus....He’ll tell you the same thing.
It's a good day to praise the lord.